Does Marriage Really Work?

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By QudsiaP1

This hub actually is an answer to georgiecarlos's question "Does marriage really work?"

Well Does It?

Marriage is not supposed to work...

Let me clarify, the institution of marriage is a sacred nuptial bond between TWO people, therefore in plain terms it is the responsibility of BOTH these people involved to work at it.


Nuggets Of Wisedom

Patience, compromise, love, respect, are just a few nuggets needed.

All your life you are prepared for marriage so I do not see why any one would fear it.

While it is fair to say that most young people fear marriage, it is also true that when these very young people become old, loneliness sets in and whatever one night, club partying shindig you had going on, no longer has substance or meaning. You wish for a partner, you could reminiscent with, someone who could recognise your needs before you utter them.

The Purpose Of Marriage

The purpose of marriage was always supposed to be a bond which unites two different beings so they may be able to cherish and love one another. As one grows older you realise the importance of a partner, someone who can be there for you through the ups or downs.

What If?

Most people are focused on all the things that can possibly go wrong with being married but what about the good things? Think positively because the same 'what if' can be applied to any scenario in your life, you still go ahead don't you?

Moral

Marriage is not supposed to work... YOU and YOUR partner MUST make it work.

Comments

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arb Level 4 Commenter 16 months ago

Love is a decision and not a feeling. The feeling is the fruit of decision. Well done for one so young.

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QudsiaP1 Hub Author 16 months ago

arb: Thank you for your words, as they motivate me to do better each and every day. :)

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ironbutler 14 months ago

Although iv never felt i was afraid of getting married one thing i am afraid of is one day looking back and thinking ok ya i had a good life but i never had someone i could share everything with.

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QudsiaP1 Hub Author 14 months ago

Life is too short for regrets, ironbutler. I sense there is someone out there waiting for you, go after them, pursue them.

Thank you for the comment.

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